‘We will do all in our power to assist you, so that you never feel that you have no alternative except an abortion.’
NEW YORK — In a robust demonstration that actions speak louder than words, New York Cardinal Timothy M. Dolan Feb. 18 introduced representatives of six Church-related organizations that help pregnant women in need.
Standing in the modest living room of a convent that Sisters of Life share with expectant and new mothers and their children, the cardinal reaffirmed the commitment first made in 1984 by his predecessor, Cardinal John J. O’Connor.
“Any pregnant woman can come to the Archdiocese of New York, to its parishes and facilities, and we will do all in our power to assist you, so that you never feel that you have no alternative except an abortion,” Cardinal Dolan said. “It does not matter what your marital status, your religion, or your immigration status might be. None of that matters, folks.”
Cardinal Dolan acknowledged that the timing of his re-affirmation of the Church’s outreach coincided with the attention given to the Reproductive Health Act of 2019, which effectively removed restrictions on abortion in New York, and the current “almost pro-abortion atmosphere out there.”
“Every once in a while we need to trumpet and put a spotlight on the good work that we do,” the cardinal said. “Most of us bristle when the Church is criticized for speaking all the time but not offering action. Nothing could be further from the truth.”
Cardinal Dolan said he was worried that poor women especially were getting the impression that abortion is their only choice. “This is a very teachable time for us to stand up and say, ‘We’re here. We love you. We welcome you. There is an alternative here and we’d be honored to serve you.’”
Mother Agnes Mary Donovan, superior general of the Sisters of Life, said her group has provided assistance to more than 9,000 women since the religious community was established in 1991, and they have shared their convents with pregnant women since 1996.
“We are standing in radical solidarity with women during an unexpected or difficult pregnancy.” she said. She added the Sisters of Life serve 600 to 1,000 women each year. She said their message to vulnerable pregnant women is: “Know you are not alone. We believe in you. This pregnancy does not mean your life and your dreams are over. We stand ready to help you realize the deepest desires of your heart.”
Dr. Anne Nolte, director of the Gianna Center for Women’s Health and Fertility, said her medical practice provides primary care and reproductive health care to women and teenagers that aligns with Church teachings. The center offers service to patients of all backgrounds and has “a particular commitment to helping women whose babies have an adverse diagnosis in the womb,” Nolte said.
Chris Bell is a co-founder with the late Father Benedict Groeschel, a Franciscan Friar of the Renewal, of five Good Counsel residences in New York and New Jersey for homeless single pregnant women and their children. He said his group provides “concrete help and real hope” to women in crisis.
Since 1985, Good Counsel has served more than 7,800 mothers and children with more than 755,000 nights of shelter as well as material aid, counseling, parenting and education programs.
Msgr. Kevin Sullivan, executive director of Catholic Charities of the Archdiocese of New York, described a network of 90 affiliated agencies that provide dignified, compassionate care to people in all stages of life. “Our door is open,” he said.
The speakers said their services are free or low-cost and available to all women regardless of race, religion, background or ability to pay.
Cardinal Dolan acknowledged the hurt, frustration and anger people in the archdiocese might feel at the new abortion law. “We should not respond with bitterness and divisiveness, but put our faith and trust in the Lord and reach out with love to troubled moms and their babies,” he said.