ROME — After circling a massive, crumbling public housing
complex on the outskirts of Rome, Pope Francis had an emotional
encounter with the neighborhood’s children.
sessions with youngsters are a standard part of Pope Francis’ parish
visits. And, at St. Paul of the Cross parish April 15, there were the
usual questions like, “How did you feel when you were elected pope?”
then it was Emanuele’s turn. The young boy smiled at the pope as he
approached the microphone. But then froze. “I can’t do it,” Emanuele
Msgr. Leonardo Sapienza, a papal aide, encouraged the boy, but he kept saying, “I can’t.”
“Come, come to me, Emanuele,” the pope said. “Come and whisper it in my ear.”
Sapienza helped the boy up to the platform where the pope was seated.
Emanuele was sobbing by that point, and Pope Francis enveloped him in a
big embrace, patting his head and speaking softly to him.
With their heads touching, the pope and the boy spoke privately to each other before Emanuele returned to his seat.
only we could all cry like Emanuele when we have an ache in our hearts
like he has,” the pope told the children. “He was crying for his father
and had the courage to do it in front of us because in his heart there
is love for his father.”
Pope Francis said he had asked Emanuele
if he could share the boy’s question and the boy agreed. “‘A little
while ago my father passed away. He was a nonbeliever, but he had all
four of his children baptized. He was a good man. Is dad in heaven?’”
beautiful to hear a son say of his father, ‘He was good,’” the pope
told the children. “And what a beautiful witness of a son who inherited
the strength of his father, who had the courage to cry in front of all
of us. If that man was able to make his children like that, then it’s
true, he was a good man. He was a good man.
“That man did not have
the gift of faith, he wasn’t a believer, but he had his children
baptized. He had a good heart,” Pope Francis said.
“God is the one who says who goes to heaven,” the pope explained.
next step in answering Emanuele’s question, he said, would be to think
about what God is like and, especially, what kind of heart God has.
“What do you think? A father’s heart. God has a dad’s heart. And with a
dad who was not a believer, but who baptized his children and gave them
that bravura, do you think God would be able to leave him far from
“Does God abandon His children?” the pope asked. “Does God abandon His children when they are good?”
The children shouted, “No.”
Emanuele, that is the answer,” the pope told the boy. “God surely was
proud of your father, because it is easier as a believer to baptize your
children than to baptize them when you are not a believer. Surely this
pleased God very much.”
Pope Francis encouraged Emanuele to “talk to your dad; pray to your dad.”
a young girl named Carlotta also asked the pope a delicate question:
“When we are baptized, we become children of God. People who aren’t
baptized, are they not children of God?”
“What does your heart tell you?” the pope asked Carlotta. She said, they are, too.
“Right, and I’ll explain,” the pope told her. “We are all children of God. Everyone. Everyone.”
nonbaptized, members of other religions, those who worship idols, “even
the mafiosi,” who terrorize the neighborhood around the parish, are
children of God, though “they prefer to behave like children of the
devil,” he said.
“God created everyone, loves everyone and put in
everyone’s heart a conscience so they would recognize what is good and
distinguish it from what is bad,” the pope said.
he said, is that “when you were baptized, the Holy Spirit entered into
that conscience and reinforced your belonging to God and, in that sense,
you became more of a daughter of God because you’re a child of God like
everyone, but with the strength of the Holy Spirit.”